The world has seen two world wars, with two more ongoing. In such a situation, many have expressed the opinion that World War III may break out at any moment. The current global temperature is higher than it has ever been. Divorce rates have risen worldwide. Young people are losing faith in marriage itself. And within this, the ‘trend’ of having multiple children is going on.
Among the most followed on social media, Kim Kardashian, Kylie Jenner, Beyoncรฉ, Shah Rukh Khan, or Virat Kohli have become parents of multiple children. Many of the young stars have expressed their desire to be the parents of multiple children. Many adopt children to make ‘friends’ out of the uncertainty of suffering from loneliness. Raising a child single-handedly is also gradually becoming a ‘normal occurrence’.
Be that as it may, it is the individual’s personal desire. However, the responsibility of raising a child in a healthy manner rests with the parents. Everything that is necessary to bring up the child in a healthy way must be ensured. Let’s know what things to consider before having a second child.
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take time
Becoming a mother is a complex process. Once a mother, it takes at least 2 years for the body, especially the uterus, loosened abdominal muscles, and ligaments, to return to their original state. You have to give your body this time. Then plan. Also, motherhood has a direct correlation with decreased sleep time. Back to normal life first. Then decide slowly.
economic status
Parenting’ is not an easy word. And raising a child is more challenging now than ever, with joint families breaking up into single families and the realities of the times. Consider your financial situation. A child’s milk, pampers, daycare, helpers, medical care, school, clothingโthe expense zone has only a beginning and no end. So proceed carefully.
marital relationship
‘If the marital relationship is filled with bitterness, avoid the decision to have a first child, let alone a second child. Children want your time, attention, care, and affection. It is his absolute right to have it. Depriving it is a grave injustice. So first, get yourself back to normal. Then invite the third person. Why would you face the challenge of raising a child knowingly ‘alone’?
Professional planning
If you have any special plans in life, like higher education, a change of profession, or a promotion in your professional life, can you ensure the child gets the time and care it deserves? Take this into consideration. Get a child in a stable situation.
Age, physical and mental condition, weight
Before having a second child, check your age, health, and fitness. Know if the weight is correct. Increase if less. Reduce if more. Consult a doctor if necessary. And if you yourself suffer from depression for some reason, a child cannot cure you. So first, get yourself fully fit.
Child health, safety
One of the greatest needs of a child is security. Consider if there are any complications with having a first child. For example, if the first child has a special disease, take care of the possibility of the second child falling into such a situation.
Source: Parents.com
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